An acquaintance recently told me my vision for transforming leadership was “radically delusional” and “impossible.” His certainty was absolute: “People will never change. You can’t transform the masses. Impossible, never gonna happen.”
I understood his perspective. He was thinking in probability, basing tomorrow’s potential on yesterday’s patterns.
But Visionary Leaders think differently. Visionary Leaders think in possibility.
Why We’ve Been Taught to Think in Probability
From childhood, we’ve been conditioned to believe that the future is determined by the past. “Based on your grades, you’ll probably…” “Given your background, you can expect…” “People like us don’t usually…”
This isn’t malicious. It’s based on what people believe and, therefore, how they’ve interpreted their experiences. Probability thinking feels safe because it’s predictable and requires little to no risk.
And then it reinforces itself through confirmation bias, which is when your brain actively seeks evidence that confirms what you already believe.
But remember: everything on the outside is a direct reflection of what’s on the inside.
If you believe that change is impossible, you’ll unconsciously look for evidence that confirms this belief. You’ll notice every failed initiative, every person who “never changes,” every system that stays broken.
And because you’re focused on what’s not working, that’s exactly what you’ll create more of.
What you believe, you achieve, and what you expect, you receive.
This isn’t just philosophy. It’s how human psychology works. Your brain is literally wired to seek evidence that confirms your existing beliefs while filtering out contradictory information.
Before I continue, please know that this isn’t about ignoring real systemic barriers or pretending everyone starts from the same place. It’s about recognizing that even within constraints, leaders have more influence than they often realize. The question isn’t whether limitations exist—it’s whether we’re accurately identifying what’s truly fixed versus what we’ve simply accepted as unchangeable.
Probability vs. Possibility Leadership
Probability thinking says: “Based on past experience, this is what will happen.” It’s leadership rooted in historical patterns, limiting beliefs, and the assumption that tomorrow will look like today.
Possibility thinking says: “Every outcome exists in potential. Where I place my attention and energy determines what becomes my reality.”
This isn’t wishful thinking, it’s quantum physics applied to leadership.
The Science Behind Possibility
Quantum theory reveals something profound: at the most fundamental level of reality, multiple possibilities exist simultaneously until observation brings one into form (The Observer Effect).
While this happens in the subatomic realm, Visionary Leaders understand the principle: where you consistently place your focused attention, belief, and energy, you literally shape what becomes possible in your reality.
This isn’t just metaphysics. It’s backed by neuroscience, psychology, and decades of research showing that our expectations and beliefs create self-fulfilling prophecies. When you truly expect transformation, you unconsciously take actions, notice opportunities, and respond to challenges in ways that make transformation more likely.
Dr. Joe Dispenza’s research demonstrates this principle in action. When people truly change their internal state—their thoughts, emotions, and beliefs—brain scans show measurable changes in neural pathways. This neuroplasticity literally rewires the brain, affecting gene expression and biological markers.
The research shows that changing your inner world creates measurable changes in your biology, revealing transformations that most people would call impossible, and proving that our beliefs about what’s ‘realistic’ are often just limitations we’ve accepted.
If this feels too ‘out there,’ consider this: every breakthrough in history started with someone believing something different was possible. That someone, was a Visionary Leader.
When “Impossible” Becomes Inevitable
History is full of examples where the “impossible” became routine once someone broke through the ‘probability’ barrier:
The four-minute mile: For decades, running a mile in under four minutes was considered impossible. Roger Bannister broke the barrier on May 6, 1954. Within two years, 37 others had done it. The barrier was never physical, it was in human consciousness. Today, sub-four-minute miles are run regularly by competitive athletes worldwide. What was once ‘impossible’ is now a standard training benchmark.
Smartphones: In 2006, BlackBerry’s CEO declared there was “no chance that the iPhone is going to get any significant market share.” Today, that statement seems absurd.
Remote work: Pre-2020, most companies claimed it was “impossible” to maintain productivity with remote teams. The pandemic proved them wrong in a matter of weeks.
Women’s suffrage, the Berlin Wall, space travel—were all “impossible” until they weren’t.
If you expect the world to stay the same, if you expect people to have a certain behavior, if you expect the systems to remain broken, they will because you expect it.
If you expect for things to be different, they become possible to change.
Breaking the Probability Loop
Here’s how to shift from probability to possibility in your leadership:
1. Catch Your Probability Thinking. Notice when you think: “That’s just how it is here” or “People don’t change” or “We’ve tried that before.”
2. Ask Possibility Questions. Instead of “Why won’t this work?” ask “What would make this possible?” Instead of “What’s wrong with this situation?” ask “What wants to emerge here?”
3. Embody Your Vision. Your body doesn’t know the difference between imagined and real experiences. Regularly visualize your possibility vision as already accomplished. Feel it in your nervous system. Believe it in your bones. Teach your body to be familiar with that version of reality.
4. Lead from the Future. Make decisions not from past patterns, but from the future you’re creating. Ask: “What would the leader I’m becoming do in this situation?”
Your Possibility Practice
Choose one area where you’ve been thinking in probability. Maybe it’s a challenging team dynamic, a stuck project, or a personal goal. This week:
- Define what’s possible instead of what’s probable. To do this, simply imagine the BEST case of what your heart desires. Don’t let probability thinking keep you small, or tell you that your dream outcome is “impossible.”
- Spend 10 minutes daily visualizing that possibility as your current reality. When you do this, drop into your body and out of your analytical mind. As you visualize, feel everything about this new reality. What does it feel like? What does it look like? What does it smell like? What does it taste like? How does it unfold?… Remember that your brain can’t tell the difference, so take advantage and allow everything about your vision to feel as real as possible in your body.
- Get excited and take one action from that future version of yourself. Allowing yourself to feel excited about what’s coming will help you raise your vibrations and show up as that embodied leader. Doing this, will help you bring your possibility vision to life even faster.
Check in: Does this feel woo-woo or foolish to you? If you find yourself having doubts as you read this, ask yourself: “Am I choosing to think in probability or possibility right now?” 😉
The Visionary Leaders’s Responsibility
When others call your vision impossible, remember: they’re not wrong from their probability-based worldview. But as a possibility leader, you’re here to expand what’s considered possible.
Your job isn’t to convince them. Your job is to embody the possibility until it becomes so real that others can see it too.
What change would you lead if you truly believed anything was possible? What impossible thing are you being called to make possible? I would absolutely love to hear your answers! Feel free to share below in the comments, or send me a DM.
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Founder and CEO of the Crisis Ready Institute, Melissa Agnes is the author of Crisis Ready: Building an Invincible Brand in an Uncertain World, and a leading authority on crisis preparedness, reputation management, and brand protection. Agnes is a coveted keynote speaker, commentator, and advisor to some of today’s leading organizations faced with the greatest risks. Learn more about Melissa and her work here.
